My advice to you

Let me get this straight. A love is like a song. There are songs where you love them very much the first time you listen to. To find this type of song is extremely hard. Once you get them, it is hard to let them go. Luckily there are songs where you do not like very much for the first time. After several time of listening, you will find yourself liking the songs very much. So you will always listen to them. The conclusion? Find the second type of song. Give opportunity to develop your feelings. Don't put too much hope finding a song where you will love the first time you hear. For me, I find myself hard liking both types of songs...